Sprinter's life was short but sweet
This is an article from my hometown newspaper the Santa Barbara News Press. John Zant was the writer that used to cover our high school meets when I was coaching at Santa Barbara High School. This is one of the best articles he has ever written. Life is so precious and short, but this young lady ran a great race. I know here father and I know how tough this has been on him and his family but their faith and beliefs sustained them and will continue to sustain through this. Our thought and prayers go out to the Smelly family.
Sprinter's life was short but sweet
John Zant ,
Alyssa
"It was time," Russell Smelley said.
His daughter's life was a sprint, ending just a few weeks past 15 years.
But it was beautiful while it lasted.
"She soaked up life to the last moment," Smelley said. "There was nothing she missed out on until the end."
She wanted to be a sprinter on the San Marcos High track and field team. Smelley, who coaches the sport at
But in August, before she could start high school, Alyssa suffered a seizure caused by a brain tumor.
Months of treatment followed at Children's Hospital in
Alyssa came home in February to spend the rest of her life with her family -- parents Allison and Russell, and her 10-year-old brother, Travis.
They did some outings together. The Make-A-Wish Foundation enabled them to spend several days at
"Alyssa was in a wheelchair, and the first thing she wanted to ride was the California Screamin'," Smelley said.
That's a gnarly roller coaster.
"Allison couldn't look."
Another time, Alyssa wanted to get on the trampoline in the backyard. "She was able to bounce on her hands and knees," her father said.
Late May brought some happy times. One of Smelley's
But everybody knew she wouldn't be around much longer.
"You approach it like you're walking backwards," Russell Smelley said.
His choice for summer reading was David McCullough's biography of John Adams, a founding father who persevered though his own family tragedies.
"John Adams was a marvelous man," Smelley said. "Two hundred years later, I was getting encouragement from him."
The Smelleys also received generous support from close friends in their couples group, fellow members of the
About 20 of them were gathered in the Smelleys' home three days ago. Alyssa's breathing had become shallow. Travis got home from a sports camp at
"We have a blessing song we sing to our kids," Russell Smelley said. " 'May the Lord bless you and keep you . . .' We were surrounding her and singing when she took her last breath at
It was the Fourth of July.
"John Adams and Thomas Jefferson died on the same day (in 1826)," Smelley said. "She's in good company."
A celebration of Alyssa's life will take place at
John Zant's column appears Wednesday, Friday and Sunday. E-mail: jzant@newspress.com
1 Comments:
Everytime I think about Alyssa and how such a beautiful, real, humble, and caring young lady is gone, tears flow from my eyes uncontrollably. I know she is in a better place, but did God remove an Angel, so pure. Last summer, I was roommates with her at International Youth Conference with the Free Methodist Church in Fort Collins, CO. We would run together as she trained to enter the Cross Country team at the same high school I had just graduated from and I trained for college soccer. I remember her always saying how much she didn't like running, but she knew this was how it had to be, didnt protest, and ran anyways. I didn't get to say goodbye, but I will remember her forever.
My name is Monique, from Santa Barbara, CA and attended San Marcos High. Played Club soccer for Cam Camerena, CA Legends. I came across this blog as I was searching for more info about Alyssa. Thank you for posting, it has allowed me to reflect on this life who has immensly impacted me. Small world.
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